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Theyre financially independent and enjoy feeling young and hip, so theyre turning the tables on the tradition of older men scooping up trophy babes."I definitely see this trend among older women because they have such full lives," says Sheri de Borchgrave, who wrote a sex column called "Bedroom Baroness" for Cosmo until 2003. A jazz singer who goes by the name Perez, its common for Diana to be approached by younger guys after her gigs."Theyre all about T&A and MTV," she says. One actually asked me to sing him to sleep sometime. That was a little weird."But the real problem is he was into video games. Web sites charting the phenomenon, like and .urbancougar.com, feature an Urban Cougar of the Month and even subcategorize saucy women under 40 as "pumas" and those over 50 as "jaguars."Cougars are often divorcees or career-driven women who want to avoid the entanglements of a relationship. " A cougar at the next bar stool named Diana chimes in. Think: Demi Moore and boy toy Ashton Kutcher, or Nicollette Sheridans conniving Edie Britt on "Desperate Housewives," or Kim Cattralls tramptastic Samantha Jones on "Sex and the City." While were at it, lets throw in half of the older women in spinning class at Equinox gyms on the Upper East Side. "They dont have any hang-ups, theyre just looking for fun, theyve got great bodies. So if you meet one, suddenly youre at a table with about five good-looking guys." The other bartender, 35-year-old Joanna, says: "Youve got to take them back to your place, though, because theyve all got roommates. "Also, you dont want them too immature - like, any guy who orders a Long Island iced tea or some stupid new shot like liquid heroin.Today, not having these types of common meeting places makes it harder to find single men to date. Growing up, we weren't taught who men really are and what makes them tick.I know I wasn't and in the past, I made huge mistakes that ended up emasculating men.