Safety on online dating
Morning dates Dates are traditionally something which happen after dark, however, with the increased number of people online dating and meeting via apps, and the increased frequency of dates, it's not unusual to suggest a ‘day date’ - meeting for brunch, for example, or grabbing a bite to eat on a lunch break. Spread to the word Tell a friend (or five) about your date.Give them a little insight before you meet them too, by letting them know who you’re meeting and where you are planning to go - and don’t feel awkward about nipping to the loo on the date to give them a quick text updating them of your whereabouts.Here are seven tips to keep in mind as you look for love online:“Tell your friends where you’re going and when you’ll be home,” said Helen Fisher, a senior research fellow with the famed Kinsey Institute and chief scientific advisor to Create a routine with a buddy that includes checking in by phone if the date goes to another location, when it wraps up and when you’re safely home.
Opt for a neutral meeting place When meeting someone for the first time (read: second, third and fourth) arrange your date in a neutral place - and never accept a dinner invite at a person’s house.
Check them out online The advantage of everyone living their lives online now is that you’ll be able to verify a person’s identity before you meet them by looking them up on social media.
There’s no need to get their inside leg measurement and mother’s maiden name but, checking they are a "real person" before a date will give you piece of mind before you meet.
Everything from people’s addresses to engagement announcements, to someone selling an engagement ring on Craigslist,” Alexander said. “Ask if they have ever been arrested,” Thurber suggested.
“This stuff can lead to learning who the person really is.” (And maybe how old they It may be tempting to schedule the first date via text message. Talking by phone will help you get a feel for the person, Thurber said. (No doubt, a bold question, and the person could lie.