Parenting advice for teenage dating
Talk to your teen about how real life dates don't mimic what might be seen in the movies.Instead, first dates may be awkward, but they can also be a lot of fun.
But last night we found ourselves discussing the latest bogeyman of raising not-yet-adults: .
While it's not healthy to get wrapped up in your teen's dating life, there will be times when you may have to intervene.
If you overhear your teen saying mean comments or using manipulative tactics, speak up.
There are two equal people involved, or something is wrong. See the movie you’re not thrilled about or hang out with the friend who’s not your favorite. This endorphin poisoning is particularly acute when you’re young and this is one of the first times you’ve felt this way. Also accept that your perceptions in this area are a little warped and no, it’s not really like you’ve known each other forever or you’re soul-mates or whatever after two days. You’re not ready.) Do you know not to let someone touch you or not to buckle to pressure to touch them in any way if you’re not into it? If it’s making you into someone different, it’s the wrong relationship, period. And never forget: Whatever happens, I’ll be here with your favorite flavor and a spoon if you need me.
Continuing to attend to your pre-love priorities (friends, homework, family, etc.) will serve as an anchor to make sure your new relationship doesn’t take over your entire life, as well as having the side benefit keeping you un-grounded so that you can continue to see your new squeeze. Also, no matter what happens, the golden rule applies—behave in a way you can be proud of, even if your partner doesn’t do you the same courtesy.