My husband is dating another woman
I encouraged him to come to Nigeria but he refused.
On my own things where so tough that at a point i went to live with his brother but the treatment i received from his brothers wife forced me back to Lagos after staying there for one month. Seriously nobody here knows what's best for u except God. Bt wait a bit n listen to wat ur hubby as to say after all dt woman has now confirmed dt things were honestly tough for him Meanwhile...
Now she wanted to know about her daughter that i forgive her. You also need to find out if he wants to continue his relationship with you or her... You need to find out to what extent he depends on her and how much of his presence or absence could impact on your son. You did not mention where your husband travelled to.
I saw the daughter's picture and she looks exactly like my husband. All these will help you assess the relationship on whether to proceed for a divorce or to get back together depending on his answers to you If he married the lady, you have to go for an annulment or divorce. I just pity your life and your son's life even more. But if it was to one of those countries with strict immigration/work policy, life could be really hard.
As others here have said, wait for your husband to return and then listen to his explanations before you make a decision. On my own things where so tough that at a point i went to live with his brother but the treatment i received from his brothers wife forced me back to Lagos after staying there for one month.
And you need not worry about the other woman because your husband is not under any compulsion to marry her. I must commend your perseverance and steadfastness. In fact, I have known women who passed through similar experience. I came back to Lagos started looking for work,i first got a job that couldn't even take care of my son and my needs even for a week,it was tough all through those period but i was able to pull through as i finally got a stable job, paid for a house and gave my son a much better life than what we where used to.
I called him and confronted him he didn't deny and he didn't say only said when he comes back that he will explain to me what happened. You need to prayerfully consider all your optionsizzou: Please I need your sincere advice Nairalanders: That was your mistake. Overseas, some new male and female immigrants without the necessary papers find life difficult.
Seriously i think i have had enough and is better for me to forget the marriage and move on but my mother and sister keeps begging me to forgive him. You didn't know him too well Just pray to God for guidance and wait for him to be back Am so sorry for what you are passing through I don't see any problem here o. As a result, they are forced to "attach" themselves to a more comfortable acquaintance, often the opposite sex, to ease settling down. I strongly suspect that this is why happened to your husband.
Even 8f she kbew him well, he would have likely done the same. I think it was total dependence, I will use the lady's words she said 'I took care of him from the moment he was placed on path'What baffles me is how someone who was doing well here in lagos even with a nice car will now totally depend on a woman to fend for him. One immediately he comes back and another one 6 months later before engaging in unprotected sex with him. All these will help you re access the relationship on whether to proceed for a divorce or to get back together depending on his answers to you If he married the lady, you have to go for an annulment or divorce. Sometimes, we are so in love that we tend to neglect or discard or partner's true character when they display them. Life is crazy, you may have one child, meet a great guy who will love that child.
I was already pregnant and it was tough for me to be alone throughout the period the period of my pregnancy.
He was assisting me financially sending money monthly but shortly after i gave birth he started complaining that he was having problem with his business that it was tough for him over there.
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Need Help (1) (2) (3) (4) Please I need your sincere advice Nairalanders: I got married in 2011, I dated my husband briefly before we Traditionally got married and shortly after that he traveled out.
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I just focused on my son and work,then one day a friend of his called and started telling me to forgive him that things have so tough for him over he always talks how much he loves Like the good girl i was i forgave him,this is 5 years plus i have been waiting for this man that have begging me to have patient for him,always taking hasn't even set eyes on his son. If he wants you and the family and is ready to be committed, secure a job and be financially responsible,you may find a place in your heart to forgive him.