Dating what she says means
If she says she’s fine, you can be confident that she really means it because when there is a real issue, she comes out with it directly instead of assuming you’ll be able to read her mind. No one will want to say a bad word about you because a blunt girl knows how to cut someone down, faster than any other.It’s not that she doesn’t believe that you’re human or that you have flaws, but that it’s no one else’s place to point them out because none of us are perfect. People appreciate her honesty and know they can come to her when they want the truth, no bullsh*t.To this day, I still think about him with such high regard.Never played games, pursued me with all diligence and made my heart melt. Watch what happens: You agree to this “just friend” role. You end up being the guy who hears about the new guy. Then you become the pushover who gets to hear about the new guy all the while wishing you were him.And boy, she will surely lose respect for you at this point, and you’re taking a big step in the opposite direction of attracting her.
It’s refreshing to not be around someone who doesn’t change according to who she’s spending time with.
It is an act of martyrdom and one that women internally don’t respect.
They may not realize this, but they start feeling like they can walk all over you, demand anything, take you forgranted, basically NOT the position you want to be in.
I suggest that you also do NOT remain friends with her.
If there is any chance that she will see you romantically, sooner rather than later or NEVER, the probability of it happening increases DRAMATICALLY ESPECIALLY if the man is interested in the woman romantically.