Sasha Daygame, direct dating coach, creator of The Direct Dating Summit and author of “The Direct Daygame Bible: How to Meet and Attract Beautiful Women in Everyday Situations” explains that being the ‘mysterious type’ results in nothing but awkward complications.
Sasha states: “The mystery method was popularized by the book and encourages inauthenticy and awkward interactions” compared to his direct dating method which “encourages honesty, authenticity, and expressing yourself assertively.” 2.
When a woman is salsa dancing, if her man is unsure and waivers she is then forced to step into a masculine, leading role even though she would prefer him to lead. If she can’t trust his movements, they step on one another’s toes.
If he is direct and clear in his leadership, however, everyone wins.” The ambiguous type will always be indirect and will never be transparent.
Dating a direct man won’t be stressful or complicated Dating should be fun, not stressful.
When her man is confusing her with ambiguity, it’s complicated instead of easy, and she’s anxious instead of happy.
Have you ever wondered what will drive a woman to choose you over her other options?
If you’re direct and confident while others remain passive, there will be no contest – you’ll already be the clear winner in her eyes.
However, it’s pretty hard to come across as a confident man if you’re indifferent, indirect or passive.It’s hard to trust the ambiguous type and her confidence level goes down the longer she has to guess how he feels or deal with his indirectness.When a man is really present when they’re with a woman, is open about his feelings for her and is showing genuine interest – that makes dating enjoyable. The key is to only date people who bring out the best in you, not the stress in you.Indirect, passive men who have no solid plan, no clear intentions and make dating feel exhausting instead of fun by making them constantly have to how he feels.April Masini, Relationship Expert and the voice behind the popular Ask April advice column, with me that there’s something seductive about a direct man.