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That’s the bad kind of fear and it’s an unhealthy relationship to engage in.
But date someone who scares you because they encourage you to face all of the things you’ve tried to suppress for so long.
As a child, I clearly knew I missed my father terribly.
But I had no idea just how much missing him would impact my relationships with men.
The sound of his voice on the phone still makes my heart skip a beat.
The kind where your partner acts as a mirror to you and they lovingly help pull all of your demons out of you over time. They’ll point a flashlight into every corner of your dark mental attic, and illuminate all of the things that you try to hide from the world.
Avoid any contact with her in case she might make you feel big, scary emotions again. So if you’re at a place in your life where you are starting to see someone who challenges you, confronts you, and scares you on some level, take stock of whether or not you think they might be a force for positive change in your life.
Don’t date someone who scares you because they are controlling, angry, violent, or abusive in any way.
Letting someone really know you, and really see you, can be terrifying.
You are laying your heart in their hands and saying to them “Please be gentle with this.” And if they’re the right one for you, they will reply back (verbally or non-verbally) “I wouldn’t dream of ever being anything else to you.”When I first started dating again after an emotionally traumatic breakup, I was hesitant to let anyone get close to me.