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Want to get automatic text reminders every 3 or 6 months for your next HIV or STI test?Just enter your information here, then respond to the text message we'll send you.It’s like they’ve died but keep coming back to life.” I ask Jean if she thinks women can be benchers, and she pauses briefly before responding.“I think women do play games with men in their lives who have been around for a while, just waiting in the wings,” she says.Or he’ll agree to a date knowing that a day or two before he’ll find some way to cancel.
If I were to pull this on someone who’s over the idea, he just wouldn’t respond. Conor, a 28-year-old law student in New York, says he’s often ignored advances from females in his life — but will continue to text and “spend time” with them while at school or in the workplace.
It wasn’t until I started seeing someone I was on the fence about that I understood what was going on.
After two dates, I couldn’t quite decide what I was feeling for this person — whether we would never see each other again or become friends or maybe date down the line — but I didn’t want to end the conversation either.
Maybe it seems like I just don’t want to be an asshole, but to me it’s justpolite.” The irony, of course, is that benching, while superficially polite, is far more insidious than simply ghosting or — if you’re old-school — offering an icy brush-off.
“He wants to feel good about himself, so he won’t ghost or break up with you,” Jean says, “but it’s worse than being the asshole.