The following comments by the women reflect the opinion expressed by most of the women I interviewed: “The first time can be a little terrifying for the woman. Others commented on their expectations in the swinging context: “What kind of clothes should I wear?
A colleague once commented that “swinging” wives are to be pitied since they have to “endure” these unrealistic demands from overbearing and oversexed husbands, and they should be viewed as victims of this male-dominated lifestyle.Women in swinging score very high on the self-determination scale, meaning, they are in absolute control of their decisions and are unlikely to be easily swayed by others.Rules: Every couple starts with rules that are generally designed to deal with each individual’s insecurities.It has often been said in the swinging community that women control what happens in swinging. After the initial nervousness wears off, it is the women who have the final say on who “parties with whom” and how (couples only, girl on girl, threesomes, group sex, including the enforcement of safe sex rules).If the woman isn’t interested in an individual or a couple, a polite excuse is given.
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